I personally like it when a guy does the tease with his tongue — where he'll massage mine lightly with his and then back off, and then come back at it. As with just about anything in life, French kissing comes with its own set of pros and cons. Plus, I think not French kissing until a few dates in adds to the build up, and that can make the kiss even hotter once we do it. It doesn't always expressly mean that you two are going to bang if you're making out alone together. You're on a first date with a girl you really like, and the two of you are definitely feeling each other.
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Going down each of these routes requires your partner's consent in the matter. It can get a little gross, depending on what you're into. I am in love with Albert.