Dealing with a troubled teen can unsettle the whole family. You mention that she is in counselling - what sort of feedback if any are you getting from the counsellor? Back Get My Plan.
Problem #1: My Child Expects Our Family to Revolve around Him
This sort of behavior is categorized by doing or saying things to create drama and induce a reaction. Hormones produced during the physical changes of adolescence can further complicate things.